silences in groups can be awkwardly funny, when everyone notices the silence and waits for it to be broken. it can be funny too when you’re meant to be silent, in some kind of ceremony or function, but the laughter just builds up inside and you struggle to hold it in to keep quiet.
there can be a silence of waiting for something to say, processing thoughts, of tact and diplomacy. though, in other circumstances, the words are just needed and have to just flow out spontaneously, and there’s no space or room for silence.
and then there’s the silences found or made for thinking, for being still. but some silences can also be boring, hurtful, existential/deathly even.





